Tell us about a time you challenged someone's behaviour because you felt it was wrong, when it would have been easier to say nothing.
What they're testing: Courage: standing up to behaviour that falls short, even with people you know.
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At the pub where I worked, a regular kept making comments about a young bar worker's appearance, and the rest of the staff laughed along. I told him calmly that it had to stop, and then I told the manager. It was awkward, but she told me later she had been dreading his visits for months.
I was the supervisor on Friday nights. This regular spent a lot of money, so when he commented on how our newest bar worker looked, people laughed it off. She was 18 and on my shift, so I felt it was my job to deal with it. The next time he did it, I went over and said quietly, 'I need you to stop commenting on how the staff look. It makes people uncomfortable, and it won't carry on here.' He said it was only banter. I said I believed he meant no harm, but the answer was still no. Then I checked she was all right, wrote down what had happened and told the manager the next morning, because I did not want it to depend on who was on shift. The manager spoke to him and he stopped. I learned that saying something early, calmly and in private is far easier than letting it build up.